Praying
for Things
Today, we’re going to talk about praying for
things – material things. Is that something we should do? Some people
ask, “Should we pray for things? Does God want us to pray for things?
Isn’t that a little selfish?” Some people say, “Well, why
pray for things? I’ve tried praying for things, and I didn’t get
the things I asked for, so why try?” So people have a lot of questions
about praying for things, and we’re going to look at that today, and I
want you to turn to Matthew 7:7 as we begin our Bible study this morning.
Like most of you, I am indebted to other Christian people who have come
before me, and who have studied. I’m sort of like the eunuch on his way
back from Jerusalem, going back home, and how Philip appeared into his life and
helped him understand things in the Bible. There are lots of things I
wouldn’t understand in the Bible, except that other people before me
helped me to understand. And there is a person that some of you remember that I
mentioned a week or so ago, named Glenn Coon. And Glenn Coon used to travel all
over North America, conducting what he called “The ABC Prayer
Crusade.” How many of you have ever attended an ABC Prayer Crusade?
He’s been dead for quite some time. He lived to be 90-some years
old, but finally passed away quite a few years ago, and he was the one who
taught us that if we want to pray for something, we should follow the Bible
pattern. And he said there is a science of prayer to be found in the Bible, and
that God has told us how to pray for things. And so right here is the
“A,” Matthew 7:7. Jesus says, “Ask, and it will be given you.
Seek, and you will find. Knock, and it will be open to you. For everyone who
asks, receives, and he who seeks, finds, and to him who knocks, it will be
open.” Here, God says He invites us. He says, “Ask. Ask for
things.”
Somebody might say, “But isn’t it kind of
selfish to ask God for a Mercedes or something like that?” Well, that
depends on what you’re going to use that Mercedes for. Now, for me, that
would probably be a little bit on the selfish side. Is it wrong, though, to ask
God for things?
Turn to James 4:2. The last sentence of that verse leaves
us with a very important thought. He says, “Yet, you do not have
because...” why? It seems pretty simple, doesn’t it? But receiving
something from God is contingent upon asking. And that if we don’t ask,
we’re not going to receive. And a lot of people miss a lot of blessings
because they don’t ask. You remember that hymn?
“What a friend we
have in Jesus
All our sins and grieves to bear
What a privilege to
carry
Everything to God in prayer
Oh, what peace we often
forfeit
Oh, what needless pain we bear
All because we do not
carry
Everything to God in prayer”
I’ve often said that there are lots of books of
hymns in the hymn book that, if we don’t believe it, we ought to not sing
them, right? Like “Blessed Assurance.” You know:
“Blessed assurance,
Jesus is mine...”
If you don’t have that
assurance, and you don’t really believe you can have that assurance, then
you probably shouldn’t sing that song. Or “Face to Face with Christ
my Savior,” in that verse, that song talks about “saved by
grace.” If we don’t believe in some of those things, we
shouldn’t sing, but praise the Lord, I believe that I’m saved by
grace. How about you? And I’m going to sing that song. And praise the
Lord, I believe in blessed assurance, and I’m thankful today that Jesus is
my Savior, and that I have eternal life. How about you? So, likewise, I
believe that “What a Friend we Have in Jesus” is a good hymn. And
it says, “Oh, what needless pain we bear all because we do not carry
everything to God in prayer.” And so I’ve made it a habit through
the years to pray to God about everything because it matters to him what happens
in your life, even little details.
Of course, when it comes to praying
for things, in 1 John, Chapter 5:14, “Now this is the confidence that we
have in Him, that we ask anything according to His will, He hears us.”
When we pray about physical things, material things, things, we should always
say, “Your will be done.” Even Jesus did that in the garden about
his physical life. He said not “my will,” but “yours be
done.” Now, there are things that we know are God’s will. Is it
God’s will to forgive your sins? Yes, it is God’s will to forgive
your sins. It is God’s will to save you eternally in His kingdom. Is it
God’s will to help you overcome your sins? These are all things that we
know are God’s will, and many more besides. So when we ask for those
things, we have perfect confidence that we receive the things we ask for. But
when it comes to praying for material things, sometimes, it is not God’s
will to give us a material thing because it interferes with our eternal
salvation and the process of becoming like Jesus. That’s why we are
taught to pray, “Your will be done.”
Now turn to Matthew 10:8.
One of the reasons that Jesus wants us to freely ask for blessings is so that we
might be a channel of blessing to others. He says here, in Matthew 10:8,
“Heal the sick, cleanse the lepers, raise the dead, cast out
demons.” By the way, I still believe God does, and wants to do all those
things. And I’ve seen all those things except the raising of the dead,
but I’ve met people who have seen it. So I know that God still does these
things. I’ve watched it myself, I’ve seen it myself, except for
that one, and I have good testimony from other people who have seen it happen.
And then He says, “Freely you have received,” and then He says to do
what? If we are not receiving God’s blessings, how can we give
God’s blessings? And He says we are to ask for things, and we shall
receive.
Let me give you an example. When we were going to Walla Walla
College down south here, it was a winter quarter. Now, I just have to back up
and tell you that my parents, bless their hearts, they just were not able to
help me go to school. They just did not have the money, and I was there on my
own. And then after I married Dolly, which is the best earthly decision I ever
made after giving my heart to Jesus, she helped me because she had finished
college. She took a two-year degree, and so the last couple of years, she was
able to help me. What a blessing that was. And then God did a lot of other
things, and here’s one of the things that God did.
I tried really
hard to pay my bills on time, and we scrimped and saved and lived very frugally,
and because we were doing those things, I could freely come to God and ask Him
to help us. And besides that (and this is a whole other sermon) we were
returning our tithe to God faithfully, every month, as we received our income.
And so, I remember that one particular time, when fall quarter was over and
Christmas break was coming, and I was thinking, “Good, I have a nice, long
Christmas break. I can work hard,” because I hung sheet rock, and I
thought, “the nice thing I like about sheet rock is that you get paid for
what you do.” I love piecework because when you work in piecework, you
get paid for what you do. And so I would go in there and I would work hard, and
I had a nice long time for vacation, and I thought, “I can work hard, and
I can make the money to put down on my bill for the next month.” Well,
wouldn’t you know it, work slowed down right about the time Christmas
break came, and there weren’t as many housing starts as there had been.
And so I thought, “Well, I did my best, and I did make some money, and I
was able to pay off the previous quarter’s bill and all that, but I needed
$600 to put down on my school bill before I could register for the next quarter.
I could see I wasn’t going to make it. So what do you do? Well,
I’m sitting there, and I’m starting to write out my tithe check for
that coming Sabbath, and I’m thinking, “I could delay my
tithe.” See, pastors get tempted, too. I thought, “I could delay
my tithe,” and I thought, “No, God has always been faithful to me,
and He says right there in Malachi that if I return my tithe to Him, He will
bless me, and I’m not going to withhold God’s tithe from Him.”
So I made that decision, I turned in the tithe to the Lord, and then kept
praying about it and asked God to please help us. That week, when I went out to
the mailbox, my sister, Judy, bless her heart, had sent a Christmas card. And
in the Christmas card, there was a check for $630.
And she wrote this
note in there, and she said,
Kevin,
The
other day, I was deeply impressed that you needed some money. I don’t
know how much you need, but I sent this money, and I hope it’s what you
need.
And of course, I told her later that it was $30 over
what I needed to register for school. Now, I’m not asking you to follow
this example; you do what the Holy Spirit tells you to do, but I’ve always
returned tithe on gifts. And so, in this case, that’s $63. Well, guess
what. I had $30 in my banking account, and with the $30 extra that she gave, I
was able to return tithe and still have money for my school bill. God hears our
prayers. Now, what if I hadn’t asked? The Bible says I wouldn’t
have received.
Turn to Mark 11:24.
“Therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe
that you receive them, and you will have them.”
Now turn to Matthew
9:17. What did Jesus say about the importance of believing when we ask for
things? Here is a man who came to Him and asked Him to please heal his child.
And when he came to Jesus, His response to this man is very interesting.
Starting with Verse 18, it says, “While He spoke these things to him,
behold, a ruler came and worshipped him, saying, ‘My daughter has just
died, but come and lay your hand on her, and she will live.” Now, is that
faith? Yes, it is. And then you go down to Verse 22, and a lady who touched
Him the way said, when she had this problem of bleeding, she touched the hem of
Jesus’ garment on the way. And in Verse 22, it says, “Be of good
cheer, daughter. Your faith has made you well.” And then, when Jesus
came to the ruler’s house and saw the flute players and the noisy crowd,
He said, “Make room; for the girl is not dead, but sleeping.” Of
course, they laughed at Him. But when the crowd was put aside, He went in and
took her by the hand, and the girl arose, and the report of this went out into
all that land. Notice the importance of faith and having belief in what Jesus
will do for you when you ask, when you pray, to believe that He will hear your
prayer. I’ll help you with that as we go along.
Now go to Matthew,
Chapter 8. You notice that here is a Centurion, a Roman. Not a Jew, not a
Christian, a Centurion, a Pagan. But he understood that Jesus had a connection.
And he came to Jesus, and he said, “Lord, my servant is lying at home,
paralyzed,” that’s in Verse 6, “dreadfully
tormented.”
And Jesus said, “I will come and heal
him.”
The Centurion answered and said, “Lord, I am not worthy,
that you should come under my roof, but only speak a word, and my servant will
be healed. For I am also a man under authority, having soldiers under me, and I
say to this one, ‘Go,’ and he goes. And to another,
‘Come,’ and he comes. And to my servant, ‘Do this,’ and
he does it.”
When Jesus heard this, He marveled, and said to those
who followed, “Assuredly, I say to you, I have not found such great faith,
even in Israel.” So Jesus said to the Centurion, “Go home. Your
servant is made well,” and he was, just as Jesus said, in harmony with the
word that Jesus had spoken.
I’ve seen stuff like this. I’ve
seen this kind of stuff happen. Some of you have probably seen it. Jesus still
does things like this. I believe, when I pray for someone, that wonderful
things are happening in the unseen world of the angel, and that the Holy Spirit
is working when we pray. I know that that’s happening.
Now, Wayne,
I’m going to ask you; I know that I feel safe that I can ask you to come
up here for a second. I like for you to come up and help me. Wayne is a friend
of mine, and I think he’ll still be a friend of mine after this is over.
Now, Wayne, you and I and the class upstairs were talking about Randy Philips
and his illness a little while ago, and his attitude, and all that. Now, first
I want to ask you a question, and then I want you to tell us, the whole group,
what you told us upstairs.
And that is that our friend, Randy, was sick
with cancer. And his prayer was to be healed so that he might see his
grandchild born, right? And the doctors didn’t give him that much time.
And he was very, very ill when we met together down there in College Place; you
could see it in his face, in his body. He was very ill, and we were all worried
about him. But we a knelt for prayer and anointed him, as the Bible says to do,
and there was a healing that took place there. Randy had remarkable health for
a period of time. And he was able to see his grandchild born. That was his
prayer; that was his request. And then, after a time, his cancer came back.
And the doctors were amazed that it went away, and then many of us were amazed
that the cancer was allowed to come back. But as he began to die from that
illness, he had a wonderful testimony. Wayne, would you tell us what that
was?
Wayne:
His testimony was, “Wayne, if I could go back and change all of
this,” and I was expecting him to say, “I’d like to not have
cancer, I’d like to be able to enjoy my new grandchild, I’d like to
a lot of other things.” But he said, “If I could change everything,
I wouldn’t change one thing because I’ve never been so close to the
Lord as I am right now in my life.”
And
I thought, “How can you take that from somebody?” He died in the
arms of Jesus. And the next thing we’ll know is Randy being brought up
from the grave when Jesus calls him from the grave. But what a testimony of his
faith and trust in the Lord, and the Lord gave him that peace, and gave him that
kind of relationship.
Thank you, Wayne, very much. Which takes
more faith, to receive a yes answer or a no answer? It all takes faith, right?
And that’s why we say, “Your will be done,” when it comes to
praying for things because God knows best. And God, in this case, allowed Randy
to go to sleep, but he had faith that he would see Jesus and be resurrected when
the Lord comes again.
Faith is something that, if you don’t have
enough faith, it’s not your fault. You can’t make yourself have
more faith. If you say, “Well, I don’t have that much faith,”
join the crowd. God gives faith as you need it. In fact, faith is one of the
gifts of the Holy Spirit. It’s something that God gives to you.
It’s like as your need is, so he will supply. So don’t sit there
today and say, “Well, I don’t have that much faith,” or,
“I don’t think I’ve had that much faith.” You
can’t make yourself have more faith. It’s something you can only
get from God, and so pray and ask God to give you the faith that you need, for
whatever it is that you need faith for. That’s a gift that God will give
you.
Now, if you want to, turn to Romans 10:17. Another way to get
faith is right here, in Romans 10:17. Not only should we ask for it, but the
Bible says that as we pray, that he will supply our faith. So then, faith comes
by what? Hearing. And hearing by the word of God. One of the reasons why
Christians have so little faith is that they have spent so little time in the
word of God. If we would take our Bibles out and read them, our faith would
grow and we would see more of God’s power in the world around us. We
would recognize it because we’ve seen it here. And we would know what to
ask for. We would know how to ask. Jesus said, “You receive not because
you ask amiss.” But if we knew what God says, we would know how to ask
for the things that God has promised to give, and we would have more answers to
prayer.
So now I want you to turn to Psalm 84:11. I think I’ve
worn this verse out in my life. If you can wear a verse out, I’ve worn
this one out. But I just keep wearing it thinner and thinner. The neat thing
about God’s promises is they are so thick, it would take you a lifetime of
wearing on them to even take off a little bit of the surface off of it. Because
God’s promises are so powerful. And here in Psalm 84:11, the last part
– what a statement about God this is – “No good thing will He
withhold from those who walk uprightly.” We serve an awesome, generous,
merciful God. And besides that, He’s rich. He owns all the planets and
all the universe, and everything, and all those planets, billions upon billions
and trillions upon trillions of planets. He owns it all, and He’s able to
give us every single thing that we could ask or think, beyond whatever we could
ask or think.
What a great and mighty and
powerful God He is. Many times, we have gone to Him. You may think I’m
silly, but I pray about lots of things. When my razor broke, I prayed about it.
You can laugh if you want to; it’s okay. But I did, I prayed about it,
and God helped me figure out how to fix it because I didn’t have the money
to buy a new one. That’s the truth. And so I took that thing apart, and
a lot of times, if you take stuff apart, you might as well go buy another one,
right? I took that thing apart, and I prayed. I said, “God, I
don’t have the money to buy a new one, but I believe you can help me fix
it.” And he helped me fix it, and it worked, and I used that thing for
years. And I’m not a razor mechanic.
God can do anything. I pray
about everything. When things get lost, I pray about it. When stuff happens in
the car, I pray about it. When stuff happens with my house, I pray about it. I
pray about everything. I’m talking to God about stuff all the time, and I
know He wants to hear it. He doesn’t get worn out like we do. His ears
don’t get tired of hearing. When we’re raising our kids, they talk,
and talk, and talk, and talk, and talk, and talk sometimes, and after a while,
you’re thinking, “Man, it’s bedtime, isn’t it?”
But God is not like that. He loves to hear from us. He wants to hear from us.
He asks us to come and talk to Him and tell Him about all the stuff we need in
our life. He’s got resources unbounded, and he wants to share it with us.
And I’ve been the recipient of many of those things.
I want to tell
you about a man I know about. I know this is a true story because I watched it
happen. This guy, a hard worker in our community where we live, he works so
hard, but sometimes, the money just spreads so thin. Especially sometimes in
the year, or in the season of years, the money just seems to not go anywhere.
It just seems that you bring it in, and POOF! It’s gone. And Christmas
was coming, and his heart was breaking. He said he didn’t even have the
money to get a Christmas tree for Christmas, let alone presents, and he was just
devastated because he loved his kids. And he said, “Lord, what am I going
to do?” He was a man of prayer. And he told me that he took it to the
Lord and prayed. He said, “Lord, I don’t have the money, even for
the presents that my children deserve. They’ve been such good kids, and I
would like to do just something for my kids.” And he took it to God in
prayer, and he claimed verses like this. He said, “I know that if you see
fit that this is a good thing for my kids to have these gifts, I believe that
you will help me.” He prayed that prayer.
He kept praying that
prayer, and then he told me that out of the clear blue, a guy that he had done
some work for in the past, who had never paid him, called him up and said,
“You know, I never paid you for that job, and it’s been on my
conscience all this time. I’ve just got to get it off my conscience.
I’m sorry, and I want to apologize to you for withholding what was due
you, and I’m writing you out a check for the full amount, plus some
interest.” And he had more than enough money to take care of the needs
that his children had for Christmas. Some of you might be in that situation. I
think you should pray about it. I think you should talk to God and pray about
it, and ask Him to help you with that need.
One more verse. Turn to John
11:41. Jesus, when he came to the tomb of Lazarus, prayed, and part of his
prayer before he arose Lazarus from his grave, he prayed, and he said,
“Father, I thank you, that you have heard me.” You see,
that’s the seed to claim, or to thank God that he has heard us. When we
come to God and pray, it is to begin with praise and end with praise. In
Matthew, Chapter 6, you’ll remember the Lord’s Prayer. I want you
to say it with me.
“Our
father, which art in heaven
Hallowed be thy name”
That’s the praise
part. It begins with praise. Then it goes,
“Thy
kingdom come, thy will be done
On Earth as it is in Heaven
Give us
this day our daily bread
And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our
debtors
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from
evil”
Here’s the praise
part:
“For
thine is the kingdom, the power, and the glory
Forever.”
Jesus taught us how to pray.
He didn’t want us to just repeat that prayer as if that was the prayer.
He gave us an outline. He told us the kind of things that we should pray to God
and how we should pray. And when we come to God, you know that song, it
goes,
“I
will enter His courts with thanksgiving in my heart
I will enter His courts
with praise
I will say this is the day that the Lord has made
I will
rejoice, for He has made me glad
He has made me glad; He has made me
glad
I will rejoice, for He has made me glad
He has made me glad; He
has made me glad
I will rejoice, for He has made me glad”
I will enter His gates with
thanksgiving in my heart. I will enter his courts with praise. We begin our
prayers with praise, and we end our prayers with, “Thank you, God, that
you have heard my prayer. And I know that you will do what is best.
When
you turn to Mark 9:20, then, they brought this young man to Jesus, and when he
saw Him, immediately the Spirit convulsed him (the boy), and he fell on the
ground and wallowed, foaming at the mouth. So He asked his father, “How
long has this been happening to him?”
And he said, “From
childhood.” Can you imagine wrestling with that since he was a baby?
“And often, he has thrown him both into the fire and into the water to
destroy him, but if you can do anything,” (catch that) “have
compassion on us and help us.” Jesus first had to help the father before
He could help the boy. Too many of us approach God as if He was reluctant to
help us and to save us, and to give us what we need. God is not reluctant,
he’s eager.
And so He turns to this man and says, “If you can
believe.” It wasn’t a matter of if Jesus could do anything; it was,
can you believe. “If you can believe, all things are possible to him who
believes.”
Immediately the father of the child cried out and said
with tears, “Lord, I believe. Help my unbelief.” That’s a
good prayer to pray. Sometimes we need to pray for faith, and He said if we
would ask, He would give it to us.
I’m going to end with this story
so that we try to stay close to our closing time, and I can pick it up next
time. Our daughter, Carrie, when she was about eight years old, came to me and
asked, “Daddy, I would like to have a horse.” Number one problem,
we didn’t have the money for a horse. Number two problem, we didn’t
have the place for a horse. Number three problem, we didn’t have the
money to keep up a horse, even if we had number one and number two. But when
you love your daughter and she comes and she asks you something, I told her,
“Sweetheart, I would like nothing more in all the world than for you to
have a horse.”
I didn’t want the horse, but I wanted her to
have it. I grew up with horses, literally, and I had to take care of them. My
dad raised registered quarter horses, and it was my job to go out there and
water them and feed them day and night, day and night. We hardly ever did
anything with them until a show came around, and they were kind of like a
nuisance to me when I was growing up. And besides that, they cost a lot of
money, and they were always getting slivers off the fence, and they were always
needing something done with the vet to come out and sew them up or stuff a pill
down their throat. It just seemed like money, money, money.
I think I
mentioned this once before. I had a friend who had a boat, and there was a
plaque on the boat. Do you remember me telling you that? And the plaque on the
boat said, “A boat is a hunk of fiberglass into which you throw
money.” Well, a horse is another type of fiberglass into which you throw
money. But they’re beautiful animals, and if a person can have them, what
a blessing they are to so many people, and don’t take my comment to mean
they aren’t great. They’re wonderful animals.
But we
didn’t have the money or the place, and I just explained that all to her.
I said, “But Sweetheart, this is what I’m going to do: I’m
going to pray that God will somehow make it possible for you to have a horse.
And I want you to know that your daddy is saying to you that if there ever is a
way or a means whereby you can have a horse, you will have that horse.
So
she began to pray, eight years old, prayed and prayed. And she made a decision
that I didn’t know about until a few weeks or months later. She said,
“Daddy, when you give me my money for allowance, I’m going to put
that away for a horse.” And she said, “Whenever I earn any money,
I’m going to save that for a horse.” Now, you know a lot of kids
make statements like that, and they don’t follow up on it because the
candy looks really good and the dolly looks really good, and they spend that
little bit of money. Kids have good intentions, but sometimes it’s hard
to be that disciplined.
Not Carrie. She made that decision and she very
seldom deviated from that. For the next eight years, she saved her money
religiously, put it away until after all that time, besides little miscellaneous
things that she had to spend some money
on, she finally had over $600 that she had saved for a horse. Her dream was to
have a black registered horse. So she prayed, and that was what she was praying
for, and there’s nothing wrong with praying for that. She knew how to
pray; we taught her how to pray, “Thy will be done,” and she was
praying for the Lord’s will to be done.
I remember the day when she
was 16 years old. She came in and she said, “Daddy, I found a horse for
sale.”
I said, “Really?”
She said, “Yeah. You
know my friend Graciella? Graciella’s going to sell her horse.”
And I knew Graciella’s horse, a registered Arabian. But it was
gray, not black. And I said, “Is that the horse you want?”
And
she said, “Well, it’s not my dream horse, but you know, I understand
that sometimes we’re not as in tune with what God wants for us.
It’s an Arabian horse, it’s a good horse, it rides well, and I can
afford it. She’ll sell it to me for $600.” And there was a place
to keep it. And we could see our way clear to help feed that thing.
And
so we were thinking, “Well, maybe this is God’s will. Sometimes, we
have to adjust our thinking to what God has for us.”
So we prayed
about that, and she decided that that’s what she wanted to do, and I said,
“Well, if that’s what you want to do, then we are just one hundred
percent behind you.” So she went and bought this horse, which was called
Pinocchio. Keep that in mind; it was called Pinocchio. And Pinocchio came to
live with us, and it was a nice gelding, a beautiful horse, just a delight. Not
a problem, didn’t push over fences or eat on the posts, or any of that
kind of stuff. It was just a good horse. I wasn’t high-spirited and
wasn’t wild, just a good horse. And she could ride that horse, and she
was the right size for that horse, and she loved that horse, and they got along
so well. We were never worried about that horse hurting her. They just had a
good relationship. It was a good experience.
A few months after she
owned the horse, she came home and she said, “Dad, you know where
I’ve been going down and riding in the arena? That lady is willing to
give me dressage lessons.” Carrie had always wanted to do dressage, where
the horses go through these fancy paces. And she said, “I think Pinocchio
has had some dressage
training.”
“Really?”
“Yeah, I’m going to
find out.” So she went back, and the lady herself got on the horse, and
Pinocchio was trained for dressage. He knew how to do all these fancy things
– the diagonal stuff, feet up, and all kinds of stuff – he was doing
all this dressage stuff. And Carrie only had to learn how to make him do it.
That’s all she had to do because he was ready to go. Whoa! A dream,
answered. She couldn’t believe it because she had always wanted to do
dressage with her horse.
So, then she goes, “Dad, I prayed for a
registered horse. Do you think Pinocchio could be registered?”
I
said, “Well, he’s had all that training, and he looks like a
purebred Arabian to me, but I don’t know how you’d ever find that
out.”
She says, “Well, he’s been cared for all these
years by a particular ferrier, and I’m going to ask him.”
I
said, “That’s a good idea.”
So she asked the ferrier,
and he says, “Well, I don’t know if Pinocchio is registered, but I
know where he came from.”
She said, “You do?”
He
said, “Yeah, he came from this place down in Grants Pass,” because
we were living in southern Oregon at the time, “I know the family that
raised these horses. I know right where he came from. I’ll give you the
phone number.”
So he gave her the phone number, she wrote it all
down, she comes home, she gets on the phone, she calls the lady down there, and
the lady says, “Oh yeah, he’s registered.”
“He
is?”
“Yeah, he’s
registered.”
And she said, “What do I have to do to get
papers?”
She said, “Oh, you just send in $35 to this place, and
they’ll send you back the papers, and then you’ve got a registered
horse.” Whoa! So here’s Carrie, praying that God will provide for
her a horse. The only she didn’t get was black. Everything else was
exactly what she had prayed for. God was so good, and when the time came that
she traded in her horse on a guy, she got way more money for that horse than she
paid for it. God always knows what’s best for us.
Because of things
that have been mentioned here today, and a few things that may be in your minds,
I want you just to stay tuned here with this for just a minute. Here it is. I
want you to turn to 1 Corinthians 10:13. I meant to mention this earlier and
neglected it, and I feel like I would be sinning if I let you leave without
looking at this verse and hearing this one last thought about praying for
things. Now, you know we have a sweet family in our church who just lost a baby
yesterday, and I’m sure that they were a praying, probably praying for
this little baby. Why does God let stuff like that happen? Or when you get a
disease, and you try to behave yourself, and you still get a disease. Why does
that happen? Why does God let stuff like that happen to us?
I have a
thought for you. God made a solemn promise to us in 1 Corinthians 10:13. He
said, “No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man.
But God is faithful. He will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are
able. But with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be
able to bear it.” Some day, I’ll tell you a true story about this.
I will illustrate this, but I can’t do it today. But here is the thought:
God has promised that the most important thing is your eternal salvation. And
He wants you to be in Heaven. And sometimes, He has to let bad things happen to
us to get our attention, and to help us stay close to God.
The only time
I ever saw my family get serious about God when I was growing up, was when
something bad happened. And then all of a sudden, we remembered there was God.
And that’s true for too many people. And so God sometimes withhold
physical blessings from us even though a great big part of His heart wants to
give it to you because He knows that if He allows you to suffer a little bit,
you’ll be more serious about your faith. And that will keep you closer to
Him because sometimes we get too lighthearted and we need a little bit of sober
stuff to happen to wake us up a little bit.
Now turn to Isaiah, Chapter
57. Right here, God says that sometimes He lets people die to save them.
I’d like you to put yourself in the place of God for a minute. Suppose
you’re in God’s place. And by the way, I’m glad you’re
not, and that I’m not, okay? But let’s pretend for a minute that
you are, and here’s this person who has had some terrible disease strike
him, or some accident, and now they have to decide whether or not they have to
pull the plug in the hospital. A terrible thing, and I’ve been in the
presence of people when they had to make those decisions. Awful, awful time for
people.
But imagine you’re God, and they’re praying to you,
they’re saying, “God, save him. Save him. Don’t let him die.
Please save him. And you love every one of those people with all your heart,
and you want them to be happy, and you know that what they want is they want
that guy to live. But you also, because you’re God, you see the future.
And you know everything in that man’s future. And you know that down
here, he’s going to have this terrible thing happen to him, so bad that it
will completely destroy his faith. And that there would be no way that he would
be able to avoid such a thing.
And you’re thinking, “If I let
him die here, he will avoid this, and I’ll have him forever. But if I
save his life here, he’ll go here and I’ll lose him forever.”
Which decision would you make? Aren’t you glad you’re not God? He
has to make those decisions every single day. But I guarantee you that when you
get to Heaven, you will be thankful for every adversity God let into your life
so that you would be a person of faith. Because when you get to Heaven, Heaven
will be cheap enough and you will not complain about anything that happened to
you in your life because of the joy of eternity.
It says in Isaiah 57,
“The righteous perishes, and no man takes it to heart. Merciful men are
taken away, while no one considers that the righteous is taken away from
evil.” God loves you so much, and He wants to give you every good thing.
And say it again with me: “No good thing will he withhold from those who
walk uprightly.” The thing we need to do is, when we pray for things, to
say, “Thy will be done.” Because God knows best.
Let’s
stand for prayer:
O Father, what a great and loving, compassionate,
generous God. We come to you with our needs, bushel baskets full every day, and
you never tire of hearing us talk with you, and you never tire of providing the
good things we need. Sometimes, Lord, you let us get sick. Sometimes, you let
loved ones die. Sometimes we don’t receive the very things we ask for,
but always when you say no, it’s because there is something much more
important, something that is much better that you’re trying to give us.
But father, we get so caught up in the here and the now that we forget that
there is a greater future that you’re planning for us.
Help us to
remember, Lord, that the temporary things that we do not receive are only
because they’re not really for our best good. And that’s so hard
for us, Lord, because sometimes we think they are for our good. So we want to
pray to you today the way that man prayed when he said, “Lord, we believe.
Help our unbelief.” Give us more faith, O God, so that we are able to
believe in you and trust in you, even when we don’t get a particular thing
we’ve asked for. And help us to remember all the things we have received
from you that we did pray about.
Please bring to our minds when the Devil
whispers in our ears and tells us you don’t care about us, help us to
remember, Lord, all the things you’ve done for us so that we have that
evidence in front of us to say, “No, no, no. He does care. I don’t
understand right now, but I know he cares for me.” Give us that kind
faith, Lord. Help us to pray more and more and more about the things that we
need, and to trust you because you’re too loving and too wise to make a
mistake. And we know we’ll understand it by and by.
Thank you, Lord,
for hearing our prayer. In Jesus’ name, Amen.